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Carol Dempsey Obituary

Carol Dempsey
1937-2025
Mrs. Carol Dempsey, 88, of Cheshire, passed away peacefully, with her loving family by her side, on Saturday, March 22, 2025. Carol was born on February 24, 1937, in Brooklyn, New York. She was a resident of Cheshire for 59 years, where she raised her four children and was active in her community.
Mrs. Dempsey is survived by three of her four children, Michael Dempsey (Rita) of Wolcott, Cathleen Dempsey of Cheshire, and Daniel Dempsey (Lisa) of Cheshire. She is also survived by her grandchildren, Michael Dempsey, Alison Dempsey, Colin Dempsey, Jake Dempsey, Sean Dempsey. She will also be missed by her sister, MaryAnn Buckley (Robert), sister-in-law, Carmen McNamara, and countless nieces, nephews, and cousins. She was predeceased by her husband and Cheshire police officer, James Dempsey, and her son, James Dempsey Jr.
Family was always Carol's greatest priority. She took great joy in raising her four children, acting as a girl scout leader, den mother, and biggest sideline fan. She enthusiastically hosted at least fifty Thanksgiving sit down dinners for her large, extended family; an event she and they looked forward to each year. More recently, she enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren, babysitting whenever she could and attending countless sporting events.
Carol worked more than one job to support her family as a single mother. She worked for 30 years as an Accounts Receivable Manager at Country Lumber in Cheshire, retiring in 2018, at the age of 81. Carol also became a Justice of the Peace in the early '90s, marrying over 150 couples while serving in this role. In addition to her other job, Carol worked as a hostess at the Waverly Inn and Yankee Silversmith Inn for many years. She became politically active in her community through the Cheshire Democratic Town Committee in the 1980's, and was treasurer for the Cheshire Democratic Women's club for many years. She was honored with the CDWC Civic Pride Award in 2017. To her friends' amusement, Carol greatly enjoyed her book club, even though over the course of forty years, she only read five of the books.
She enjoyed traveling to see family, shopping, and TV. She was a big fan of the ID channel and all the Law & Order type shows, Dateline, etc.
A loyal friend to all and most of her closest friendships go back 50-60 years. She is already missed by so many.
Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Friday, March 28th, from 4 to 7 pm at the Alderson-Ford Funeral Home, 615 South Main Street, Cheshire, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, March 29th, at 12 noon at St. Bridget of Sweden Church, 175 Main Street, Cheshire, CT. Please meet directly at the church. Burial will follow at Cheshire Hillside Cemetery, Wallingford Road, Cheshire, CT. Memorial contributions may be made to The American Cancer Society, PO Box 6704, Hagerstown, MD 21741 or online at www.cancer.org . To share a story or leave online condolences, please visit www.fordfh.com .

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Published by Cheshire Citizen on Mar. 27, 2025.

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Rita Dempsey

March 31, 2025

When I think of Carol, the quality about her that I will remember most, is that she was a person with a very generous heart. A person can be generous in many ways, but a truly generous heart is a rare quality.
I remember how she welcomed me into her life and her family, when her son Michael and I became engaged. She welcomed me and my 5 children, unreservedly, and it wasn't just a one-time thing...year after year she maintained that generosity towards all of us.
She was consistently cheerful, always looking to speak the best about people. She was a person who always brought a smile to your face whenever she came through your door.
She will be greatly missed, leaving a vacancy in our hearts and lives that won't soon or easily be filled.

Mary Cullen

March 28, 2025

Rest in peace Carol...a wonderful lady.
God Bless and Condolences to her family!
Much love,
Mary Cullen A friend from Brooklyn

JoAnn Hajjar

March 26, 2025

Eli and I would like to express our deepest sympathy for the loss of your Mom she certainly was an amazing person our
thoughts and prayers go out to all of you Eli and JoAnn Hajjar

Maureen Merz-Walsh

March 25, 2025

I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Aunt Carol. Michael, Cathy and Danny my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I will forever love the times that the Hogan Sisters, (Patricia Napier, Joan Merz, and Carol Dempsey) were reunited in life and the laughter that was always there during the family gatherings. I hope you can find comfort that they have all been reunited in their passing and may all rest in peace with each other and all of their loved ones that have passed on before them. Much Love your cousin Maureen

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